Okay, so, I’ve been digging into this whole “when will I meet my spouse” thing using Vedic astrology. It’s a wild ride, let me tell you! I started by finding one of those online Vedic astrology calculators. You know, the ones where you punch in your birth details? Yeah, those. Got my birth chart all figured out, which was step one.

Then I learned that the 7th house in your birth chart is the big deal when it comes to marriage and partnerships. So I was all over that, trying to figure out what mine was saying. Venus is apparently the planet to watch, because it’s like the cosmic matchmaker or something. My Venus is doing some weird stuff, so I’m not surprised things are crazy.
Next up was figuring out these “dasha” periods. They’re basically like astrological seasons that show when certain life events might happen. You have your Mahadasha, which is the main season, and then these shorter Anterdasha periods within it. I found out that if your 2nd or 7th house lord’s Anterdasha is running, and Jupiter is hanging around those houses in transit, it can mean marriage time. Complicated, right?
I also stumbled upon this thing about cycles and specific years when you’re more likely to meet “the one.” They say when your 1st, 5th, and 7th houses are activated in certain years, like your 13th, 17th, 19th, 25th, and 29th, you’ve got a better shot at bumping into your future spouse. Apparently, my birth year counts as the first year, so I’ve got some math to do. I found out that if I want to increase my chances of meeting someone, I need to visit parties, family events, gyms, spas, or salons more often.
I spent a whole afternoon mapping all this out on a piece of paper, with arrows and notes everywhere. It looked like a madman’s scribbles, honestly. But I started to see some patterns. For example, I’m in a 7th house lord’s Anterdasha right now, and Jupiter’s going to transit my 7th house in a few months. Could be something, could be nothing.
I’m not saying this is going to tell me exactly when and where I’ll meet my future spouse. But it’s interesting to see how all these astrological factors can point to certain times being more favorable for love and marriage. Plus, it’s kind of fun playing detective with your own life, you know? I decided to start saying “yes” to more social invites. Maybe the universe has a plan, and I just need to show up.
So, that’s where I’m at. Still single, but with a whole lot of astrological data and a slightly more hopeful outlook. Who knows, maybe my next trip to the grocery store will be the one. I’ll keep you all posted if anything interesting happens. Wish me luck!