Okay, so the other day I was messing around with my friend’s chart, you know, just for fun. We were looking at our synastry – that’s basically how our birth charts vibe together. And BAM! We noticed we have Sun conjunct Mars. I’d heard about this aspect before, so I got curious and decided to do my usual hands on test.

Digging into Sun Conjunct Mars
First thing I always do is create a new blank doc.I started by pulling up both of our birth charts.I needed to make sure I had the exact birth times, because, well, astrology is pretty precise, it’s not a game! With the charts in front of me, I located my Sun and then checked for her Mars.I marked these locations to do further analysis
In synastry, Sun conjunct Mars is supposed to mean, like, a super energetic connection. It’s all about action, passion, and maybe a bit of a competitive spirit. Sounds intense, right?So to do more detailed observation,I started to do these things:
- I created a new chat on what’s app.
- I screen recorded our interactions(chat,vc,etc) everyday before sleep.
- Then I documented these screen records,I add some notes to the file name,like date and a simple conclusion word to summarize that day.
- I compare these records to find some patterns which happened between us.
The Experiment Begins
I observed us for two *,I found these patterns from our records:
-
More arguments than usual, and often about nothing,really nothing.
-
Passionate vc almost everyday,we just keep talking and talking,even if time’s limited.
-
Annoying each other?I am not sure,it’s more like a competition than annoying.
-
More intimacy,this is true!
It was like this constant push and pull. One minute we were totally in sync, working on a project together with crazy focus, and the next we were bickering about who left the cap off the *,I got so many uselss arguments,I almost stop this silly test.
What I Learned
Ultimately,I made this conclusion:
The Sun conjunct Mars aspect definitely showed up.I found it was a high-energy, dynamic * it’s important to learn how to find a balance,to keep those competitive or argumentative vibes in *,It was kind of exhausting, to be honest. It was like we were constantly fueling each other, but sometimes that fuel turned into a little * it proved that the saying of this aspect from books is true.
I think I’ll probably keep an eye on this aspect in the future, but maybe with a little more awareness of how to handle all that extra… * maybe,just maybe,I can get it for myself,I guess it’s all about finding the right balance.