Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into this whole astrology thing lately, and let me tell you, it’s a rabbit hole. Today, I messed around with “synastry sun square pluto” – basically, how someone’s Sun sign clashes with another person’s Pluto. It’s supposed to be, like, super intense and transformative. I was curious, so I decided to check it out with someone I have the most complicated relationship with.

First, I grabbed our birth charts. You need the date, time, and place of birth for this – it’s pretty specific. I already knew that the other person and I always have some kind of power struggle, so I was prepared for the result. And then, there’s some free websites to create a synastry chart, I chose one and entered the data.
The Process
- Input Birth Data: I put in both of our birth details into the synastry chart calculator.
- Generate the Chart: Hit the button and waited for the chart to pop up. It’s kinda like a wheel with all these symbols and lines. It looks confusing at first, honestly.
- Locate the Sun and Pluto: I found the Sun symbol (it’s a circle with a dot in the middle) for one person and then looked for Pluto (it looks like a ‘P’ with a little curve at the bottom) for the other person.
- Check the Aspect: I looked at the lines connecting them. For a “square,” you’re looking for a, well, square-ish shape – basically, a 90-degree angle. It was definitely there. A big, fat, red line.
Seeing it visualized like that, I was like, “Yep, that makes sense.” Because the connection between me and that person is always been about power dynamic. I felt like there’s always a pull, like you’re drawn to them, but it also feels like a constant battle for control, It’s exhausting, but also kinda…addicting? It is like we’re on edge, and I felt like I’m constantly being tested.
So, reading up on what Sun square Pluto actually means in synastry. It’s all about power, control, transformation, and even a bit of obsession. It can be magnetic, but also destructive if you’re not careful. There were some contents said that it’s like one person is constantly digging up the other person’s hidden stuff, forcing them to confront their shadows. And honestly? That resonated hard.
The whole experience was, honestly, super revealing. I wouldn’t say that it suddenly “solved” the dynamic, but it gave me a different lens to view it through. And I started to think in a way that maybe it’s not about “winning” the power struggle, but about understanding the deeper needs and fears that are driving both of us.
It’s a lot to process, and I’m definitely going to keep exploring this. Maybe I’ll even look at other aspects in our charts to see what else is going on. Astrology, man…it’s wild.